Mystic Healer
A new kind of commitment vow …
“I consciously choose you as my complimentary opposite in this trauma excavation project of life designed to help me heal and become more whole.I agree to be triggered, wounded, and re-wounded by you, in ways that I myself was wounded as a child, for the purpose of healing these wounds, and restoring to full potential the emotional capacities and behavioral abilities that were compromised by them. I will strive to remember that all of our conflicts are merely messages that something needs to change, evolve, or die. I will never strive simply to win an argument, but to understand the deeper truth, to train, and always to repair. To this end, I will reveal to you the knife that I hold behind my back, which is to say who I become when disregulated, and what I need when I do, so that you will have everything you need to disarm me, firmly but lovingly hold me accountable, and celebrate me when I re-regulate.Above all know that when I am disregulated, I am at my most frightened and vulnerable, and most in need of your courage, clarity and love to help re-member me, so that I can return to coherence, or take space if I cannot. I acknowledge that if we do our work well, you will help me to see parts of myself that I am not only unconscious of, but deeply ashamed of, terrifyingly disturbed by, and powerfully defended against. At my most disregulated, I will be both closest to seeing all this and most dissociated from it. These will be the moments in which we are both truly in the storm, constantly at risk of capsizing.In these moments, above all others, I vow to do everything I can to remember our covenant – that it is because we love and trust each other the most, that we have agreed to travel into each others underworld together, for the purpose of bringing light to that darkness, even as it threatens to consume us.”
“All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.” – Leo Tolstoy
What the genius, Tolstoy, understood long before the field of psychology was even created, was that like forging a sword, building a home, or growing a garden, developing a healthy relationship is a skill like any other, that requires specific behaviors, that follow precise principles, that are non-negotiable.Join me for a cutting edge training on what is arguably the most important currency of our life – healthy relationships, and how to best develop and sustain them. There is no other place I have learned more about myself, healed more of my wounding, and grown more as a person, than in my own intimate relationships, and I’d like to share those insights with you in a single, recorded, jam packed session that will cover everything we will be (hopefully) teaching our children a hundred years from now.Above all, we will be focusing on the main transformational part of the relationship, which is about trauma excavation, healing and empowerment, via yes, you guessed it, CONFLICT.Other items we will cover include:First contact. How to see the macro in the micro and predict what is coming in a friend, collaborator or potential significant other. How to identify the correct polarity of your ‘perfect’ partner.The Three A’s, and what every conflict needs to achieve resolution. (Fail in this and you will consistently descend into chaos. Pro Tip: It’s an energy thing.)How to hold accountability in a way that endears rather than offends. (The ultimate guide for door mats and bullies.)The three main trends in culture today. (Yes, you’re in one of them.) For a primer on what is to come, check out my recent three part podcast series on The Transformational Relationship, based on my nearly twenty years in clinical practice, over twenty years with my significant other, and the oldest symbolic story we have on the subject – the Egyptian Myth of Queen Isis and King Osiris.When you triangulate all three of those together, everything becomes clear as day.
No more projection. Ever.
Learn how trauma energetically moves within the couple and family.
Build a Relational Blue Zone in your life, once and for all.
About Zachary
Zachary is a guide for those undergoing healing and transformation physically, psychologically, emotionally, somatically and spiritually. His work spans multiple fields, disciplines and modalities that include trans-personal and developmental psychology, Family Constellation, Jungian and Archetypal Analysis, Autonomic Response Testing, hypnotherapy, trauma resolution, meditation, mythology, Hermeticism and the dreaming mind. He works in private practice online and in close collaboration with naturopathic doctors, alternative healers, artists and is passionate about the development of a Standard Model of Healthy Consciousness.
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Zachary’s teachings have changed the course of my clinical practice to be much more aligned with my potential as a clinician. He provided the missing pieces that I needed to help bring my clients and myself to points of profound growth. I’ll be forever grateful for his guidance and support.
Zachary’s work is truly exceptional in every sense of the word. He has a unique ability to reorient the way in which you move through, see and interact with the world. His heartfelt presence and authenticity burn like glowing embers that warm the barren and stolen pieces of yourself. Highly recommend.
Would you like to go to the unconscious inner works that are playing in the client’s life and your own…decipher them, gain insight into them and learn how to address them? This class is for you! Excellent investment. You will be glad you did. I have benefited beyond I imagined. Zachary thank you!
Transformational is the word that comes to mind when I think about how to express what it is like to work with Zachary. Deeply transformational … on all levels; whether it be in the realm of the heart when exploring feelings and emotions; the linearity of intellect and reason when dealing with the mind; or the resonance we find in the depths of our soul. I sought out to work with Zachary thinking I needed a ‘push’ to get my business off the ground, it turned out that I had to boldly go into the depths inside myself to find the edges and blocks that were holding me back, both on a professional and personal level. Zachary’s ability to be fully present and masterfully guide towards harmony between mind, heart, body, soul and spirit, is unique. He offered deep support with profound insight, sensitivity and grace, that facilitated a potential of transformation to take place on the deepest levels of my being … and ripple through to all aspects of my life. Working with Zachary has given me many tools that I will continue to use to further step into my power and allow me to become the highest expression that I can be in this world. I am infinitely grateful that our paths crossed and that I have had the opportunity to work with him.
Your work is like human ayahuasca
